The Flirtation Experiment Book Review!
- Gracie Smith
- Feb 4, 2022
- 2 min read
This book is for married women who feel that their marriage is dry, missing something, or you feel like you've become strangers who live together.

"Remember, the Flirtation Experiment is all about being a biblical woman and wife; you have so much to contribute to the upward direction of your marriage. So take courage and take action steps without apology or reserve."
This isn't a "how to" book. Phylicia and Lisa don't give a ton of advice, although they do give suggestions. They tell us what they did in their own marriages and how it affected them. There are 30 short chapters that go through different ways to pursue your husband. From romance to kindness, thoughtfulness to desire, we learn about how Phylicia and Lisa used these things to better their marriages through taking intentional steps and studying scripture
As women, especially millennials from the "purity culture", some of us have been taught that the man is the one who should do the pursuing. He should plan the dates, start the conversations, initiate sex, or be the romantic one. But it's not the case. These women did the pursuing and they made changes in their marriages, many times without their husbands noticing.
This book teaches that it's ok for us to take the first step in our marriage. If we want a richer, deeper, closer marriage, then we need to be the ones to make it happen.
The way the chapters are structures is they start out on what they saw in the marriage that needed to change and what the decided to do about it. Then they tell what they learned through Scripture about each topic. Next, we see how their experiment changed their hearts and marriages. Finally, we see a suggestion or idea of how we can apply this specific thing to our own marriages.
One thing to remember is that the things in this book are "experiments" these women did in their own everyday lives. This isn't a one size fits all path to a better marriage. This is ideas and a jumpstart. Every one is different, so every marriage is different. And if you choose to implement some of these things, your own experiment will be different.
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Disclosure:
Many thanks to HarperCollins Christian Publishing for providing this product/product information for review. Opinions are 100% my own. I did receive the product in ex change for this review and post.
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